LAW OF ATTRACTION - CONSCIOUS MIND, SUB CONSCIOUS MIND & UN CONSCIOUS MIND

 In my last blog, I have mentioned that we will explore more in details about Question 2 on “HOW TO MAKE WEAK CONSCIOUS MEMORY TO STRONG SUB CONSCIOUS IMPRINT SO AS TO REACH CHITTH / SUB CONSCIOUS ?”. 

There are 3 types of Memory. 

1.     Conscious Memory (Desire)

2.     Sub Conscious Memory (Want / Aspire) and

3.     Unconscious Memory (Need)

Before exploring these memory let us understand the meaning of the term NEED, WANT & DESIRE and try to connect these words to the 3 types of Memory.

NEEDS : Needs are the basic requirements for human survival such as food, shelter, and clothing. They are considered a primary motivator, as they are essential to sustain life.  For example a Software Engineering student who completed his graduation, basically NEED a job immediately to survive and start his professional career

WANT / ASPIRE : A want is something that you don’t absolutely need but will make your life a little better. Aspirations are dreams, hopes, or ambitions to achieve a life goal.  For example the Engineering student ASPIRE to become a PROJECT MANAGER in next 5 Years.

DESIRE : A desire is something you wish to have, regardless of your needs and wants.  For example the same Engineering student who ASPIRED for PROJECT MANAGER can also desire to have a Luxury Villa with Swimming Pool.

Ø Unconscious Memory addresses the basic requirements of your SURVIVAL NEEDS such as Breath, Food, Clothing, Shelter etc STEP BY STEP. First Unconscious will addresses your primary need for Food then clothing and then shelter   The survival instinct comes from Unconscious Memory.  UNCONSCIOUS MEMORY IS DATA OR INFORMATION WITH STRONGEST EMOTIONS  (GOOD OR BAD) WHICH ARE STORED IN THE BLOOD VEIN & BONE MARROW  ie EVERY CELL IN THE ENTIRE BODY.  

o   For better understanding We can compare the effect of the Unconscious Memory to the TSUNAMI impact where an extremely large and devastating wave caused by a violent movement of the earth under the sea, destroying the nearby city. 

Ø Sub Conscious Memory addresses those Aspiration, Ambition, Goal etc which are IMPRINTED in the Sub Conscious Memory.  SUB CONSCIOUS MEMORY ARE DATA OR INFORMATION WITH  STRONGER EMOTIONS  (GOOD OR BAD) WHICH ARE STORED IN THE SOLAR PLEXUS WHICH IS A PART OF THE SYMPATHETIC NERVOUS SYSTEM IN THE HUMAN BODY. 

o   For better understanding we can compare the effect of the Sub Conscious Memory to those huge sea waves formed in the sea during Deep Depression which capsize even the big ship.  Those who watched the famous English movie “The Poseidon Adventure (1972)” can easily relate the impact of the huge sea waves formed in the sea during Deep Depression.  Sometime the sea waves can also enter into the nearby city area causing mild damages.

Ø Conscious Memory address your Desires and Wishes.  CONSCIOUS MEMORY ARE DATA OR INFORMATION WITH WEAK EMOTIONS  (GOOD OR BAD) WHICH ARE STORED IN THE BRAIN. 

o   For better understanding we can compare the effect of the Conscious Memory to those Sea tides raising and falling during Full Moon or No Moon period, which has no or negligible effect. 

Now the user can easily understand the Power of the 3 types of Memory.  The Un Conscious Memory is most powerful, Sub Conscious Memory is Powerful and Conscious Memory is less Powerful. 

Your DESIRE / WISH which is stored in the Conscious Mind (Brain) is less powerful because it has very less emotion attached to that and hence it is may not be manifested.

When your DESIRE / WISH charged with Consistently Repeated strong vibrant emotions for some time then it becomes your WANT / ASPIRE and it will make an IMPRINT in the Sub Conscious Mind (Solar Plexus).  This Sub Conscious Imprint (Want / Aspiration) will manifest in your life in due course according to the strength of the emotion.

When your Sub Conscious Imprint (Want / Aspire) further get charged with strong emotion consistently for additional period then it become your NEED at Un Conscious Memory (Every cell of your body – Blood Vein & Bone Marrow).  In order to understand Un Conscious Memory I would like you to watch a portion of the Hindi Dubbed  Rajanikanth Movie Baashha  and the You Tube video link is given below. 

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LcAxQOatSyE

Please note that the above link is for whole movie.  I would request you to watch portion of movie from 1:15:05 to 1:15:20 (15 Seconds) where the inspector talks about Un Conscious Behavior embedded in the bone and vein to Rajnikanth.  This would make you to understand the power of Un Conscious. 

Now I would like to explain these concepts using simple regular life style example.  Scenario I - Mr. X who Desire / Wish (Conscious or Waking Mind Activity) to get up at 4 AM in the morning to prepare for his IIT Entrance Exam and set an Alarm clock accordingly.  But in the early Morning when an Alarm bell rings at 4 AM he either stops or snooze the alarm and continue his sleep (Sub Conscious Activity).  In this case the Conscious or Waking mind thinks in one direction whereas his Sub Conscious or Habit Mind behave in different direction.  The direction of Conscious Desire and Sub Conscious Behavior / Habit are different and Mr. X cannot fulfil his wishes or desire of getting up at 4 AM.  Hence Mr. X  has to ensure the Conscious Thought (Desire) to align with Sub Conscious Behavior / Habit.  He has to charge more positive emotions to that Conscious thought through Affirmation or Visualization so that the Conscious Thought with emotion form as a new habit in the Sub Conscious Mind.

In Mr. X case let us assume till his 10^th Standard he used to get up at 7 AM regularly.  Due to IIT Entrance Exam he desired to get up at 4 AM for preparation.  However his old habit (LAZINESS / COMFORT ZONE) of getting up at 7 AM prevents him to wake up at 4 AM. Mr. X has decided to motivate himself by charging more positive emotions to his thought for a period of 24 days or more so that it can become his new habit.  Once after practicing he finds it easy to get up at 4 AM and continued this habit till he completed his IIT study. After getting a Job Mr. X again gone to COMFORT ZONE and started getting up at 7AM every day and his new formed habit of getting up at 4 AM has discontinued.  In such case it is difficult for Mr. X to wake up at 4 AM due to discontinued Habits.  The Key Takeaway in this example is that The New Formed Habits Should Be In Continuous Use, Otherwise Old Habit Once Again take over Quickly. 

KEY POINT : Old Bad Habits Are Like Weed Which Need No Attention And It Will Automatically Grow Fast, Whereas The New Good Habits Are Like Plant Which Need Your Constant Attention And Nurture To Grow.

In Human Brain, through consistence practice, it takes minimum of 24 days to 64 days (in some cases more days) to form a new habit pattern and also it depends on how often you are using the new formed habit. Let us take another practical example.  In South India especially Chennai and Kerala during December Month lot of Hindu devotees used to visit Sabarimala “LORD AYYAPPAN” temple in Kerala.  To visit temple the devotees has to be observe strict vritham (self restraint) for 48 days to keep away from eating non veg,  smoking, alcohol and other worldly pleasure.  There are devotees who used to take non veg, smoking and alcohol earlier also follow strict restriction to refrain from these activities in those 48 days. Once after finishing the deity darshan at Sabarimala and reaching home, lot of the devotees  immediately resume their old habits.  Once after stopping these habits for 48 days it must have become their NEW HABIT and they could have easily given up their OLD HABIT.  In other words, if those habits are so persistent to them then how come they have given up the habits in those Vritham period of 48 days ?.  The reason is that those devotees have given up their habits for 48 days not because of their desires or Aspiration but due to compulsion the FEAR IN THE FORM OF  RELIGIOUS FAITH. 

KEY POINT :  Any New Habit Has To Be Formed With Natural Strong DESIRE / LIKE So That It Can Become Part Of One’s Personality. If  Your Fear / Religious Faith Or Any Other Criteria Has Become A Catalyst (Similar To  WILL POWER) To Form That New Habit, It Will Not Become Part Of Your Personality.   

Now Let us understand about WILL POWER. 

 

Here is something else that is very important to understand.  Most people try to change their habits and beliefs through the use of willpower. I WILL stop smoking. I WILL become wealthy, etc.

The Problem With Willpower Is, Willpower Does Not Exist!

The truth is that you do not have willpower or lack of willpower. What is really happening when you use what most people call "WILLPOWER" IS YOUR CONSCIOUS FOCUSED ATTENTION IS OVERRIDING YOUR SUBCONSCIOUS INTENTION.

In other words, you can always CONSCIOUSLY override what the SUBCONSCIOUS mind has been programmed to do. For example, if you're a alcoholic and you consciously decide not to drink alcohol, you probably will not drink - for a while. However, the moment you get distracted or Frustrated, the alcohol bottle ends up in your hand because your SUBCONSCIOUS intention which is most powerful prompts you to drink, so you drink.  

In this connection I give below link of Tamil Movie clip comedy scene which explain the Power of Sub Conscious Mind over Will Power in a jovial way.  It is in Tamil and it is difficult for me to explain in English or Hindi.  A drunkard who got severe health issue goes to Doctor for Treatment and the Doctor Advised him not to indulge in drink and if so it will have severe impact on his health.  He came out of Nursing Home with Will Power and Committed not to drink alcohol and also not to think about that.  However on his way to home he encountered few people and through  casual interactions he got the CUE / SIGNAL reminding about alcohol every time.  Pathetically Every body treat this as a Joke, but only very few can recognize the hidden true message about the POWER OF SUB CONSCIOUS OVER WILL POWER.

Scenario II – Mr. Y who Desire / Wish (Conscious or Waking Mind Activity) to get up at 4 AM in the morning to prepare for his IIT Entrance Exam and set an Alarm clock accordingly.  In the early Morning when an Alarm bell rings at 4 AM he wakes up and started preparing for his examination.  In this case, The direction of Conscious Desire and Sub Conscious Behavior /Habit are the same and Mr. Y can easily fulfil his wishes or desire of getting up at 4 AM and it becomes his Sub Conscious Habit.  Please note that however Mr. Y need a stimuli like Alarm Clock to wake up at 4 AM even though it has become his Sub Conscious Behavior / Habit.

Scenario III – Mr. Z who has been getting up at 4 AM for last few years consistently.  He does not require even alarm clock to wake up at 4 AM.  His physical body itself (Un Conscious) has become alarm clock and it does not need any external stimuli.  In Mr. Z case this habit has become Un Conscious and it is deep rooted at Cellular level. 

How  these scenario going to help us in the Law of Attraction Process.  Lot of Readers ask the question “I am not able to Manifest my strong desire despite regular practice of Affirmation and Visualization”.

The Answer is your Strong Desire has  not reached at Sub Conscious Level and it remains at Conscious thinking level.  It is your duty to make your desire to reach at Sub Conscious level as ASPIRATION/ WANT so that it will manifest in your life in due course.  However if you make your desire to reach at Un Conscious level  as SURVIVAL NEED then it will manifest at the earliest.

If you want to learn more about Conscious, Sub Conscious and Un Conscious Mind, I would recommend you to watch few movies available in You Tube and the links are given below with movie names.  

However I recommend strongly to watch CHANDRAMUKHI movie and pay more attention to the female character GANGA played by actress Jyotika and male character Dr. Saravanan played by Rajinikant.  Especially observe the dialogue when Ganga lift the heavy wooden big Cot with single hand.  In that scene Dr. Saravanan give a demo to his friend Senthilnathan  and explain the power of Sub Conscious Mind.  The whole movie is really worth to watch and my request is that you should watch this movie with the learning intention. 

1.   CHANDRAMUKHI – SOUTH INDIAN MOVIE DUBBED IN HINDI

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5ovwTN3jlcM

2.   APARACHIT (ANNIYAN) – SOUTH INDIAN MOVIE DUBBED IN HINDI

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WTGnTI3-lGQ

3.   KARTHIK CALLING KARTHIK – HINDI MOVIE

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mTPsmg7oiIw

LAW OF ATTRACTION - 4 DIMENSIONS OF MIND EXPLANATION WITH PRACTICAL EXAMPLE PART II

 In this Blog, I am explaining about How the 4 Dimensions / Parts of the Mind Functioning with respect to Forming of PERCEPTION through Sensory Input.  Please note that MIND is a Meta Physics Subject and even Psychologist & Medical Practitioners making sincere attempt to know more about Mind.  Hence whatever I have learned and understood about Mind through my limited Knowledge and experiences I am sharing my views about Mind and its Functionality.  I give below the diagrams which represents the rough sketch of Mind Parts and its functionalities.

 

 

 Let us understand the Mind functions step by step,

 Before that we understand the Perception and its 4 stages. 

1)   Perception allows people to Notice & then Select the sensory information and stimuli that are intense / Strong often to attract our attention

2)   Make the information into something meaningful through Organization (comparing existing knowledge with the stimuli)  

3)   Interpretation (making meaning of the stimuli) . It is also necessary for people to identify potential dangers (Negative emotions) and stay safe.

4)   Memory (Storage of one's experience about the stimuli)

Let us get into the subject in depth.  Through Sensory Organs (Eyes, Ears, Nose, Tongue & Touch) Stimuli are sent to the Brain through Spinal Cord.  Brain sends the Input to the Mind.  If the Mind gets attached to that Data further it will process, otherwise it will discard the data.  This process is called SELECTION.  For example you are walking in a crowded place and seeing lot of people and none of them draws your attention, but if you NOTICE your friend at distance in the crowd then your mind start immediately Focusing (SELECT) on him.  In this way your Mind eliminate most of the trivial things.

Now the Mind has got a Sensory Input Data and it wanted more related data for that Sensory Input.  Hence it will advise Memory (MANAS) to furnish more related information about the Sensory Input and ORGANIZE them to be acted upon by Intellect (BUDDHI)

Ø If Memory found no related information in the storage Media (Brain or Sub Conscious) it will inform the Mind.  Then the Mind try to ASSOCIATE the Input with Familiar Known Object and store the Input with Associated Data in the storage Media.  For example If a person who lived in an Isolated Jungle not seen and having no idea about an Airplane till date.  Suddenly he saw a flying airplane.  In order to understand Airplane, he will ASSOCIATE Airplane to a Flying Bird known to him and store the data in the Memory with association.  Whenever he see a flying airplane again, he recognize the object through Association.

Ø If Memory found any information related to the sensory input in Brain or CHITTH (Sub Conscious) it will pass on the data to the Mind

The Mind has got a) brain forwarded Sensory Input data (STIMULI)  and b) Memory (MANAS) supplied data related to the Sensory Input.  Mind send these data to Intellect (BUDDHI) for INTERPRETATION.  Intellect will apply Reasoning, Logic, Environment Condition and Belief System etc as filtering mode to pass through. Please note that Intellect differ to each person because of their belief system, Environment and other factors.  For example a person born in Southern Part of India – Chennai belief system differs compared to a Person born in Western Part of India - Gujarat.  South Indians strongly believe that through proper education only, one can survive and thrive in any part of the world.  Whereas Gujarati people strongly believe that through proper understanding and practice of Business Practices and techniques only, one can lead a prosperous life.   This is the reason why EDTECH company like Byjus strategies their Business Operation more around Southern Part.

For easy understanding we can assume

MEMORY (MANAS) + INTELLECT (BUDDHI) = CONSCIOUS MIND

CHITTH = SUB CONSCIOUS MIND

AHANKAR = EGO / SELF / IDENTITY

 

Another Part or Dimension of Mind (AHANKAR) / IDENTITY or EGO is the portion of your personality (IDENTITY / MASK ) that is in contact with the external world.  EGO also review the Sensory Input data.  The Sensory Input Data should be Attractive Enough to Catch the attention of the Ego.  For example you might have seen lot of cars passing through you while walking on a road. You LIKE few cars and note that these LIKEs have a LOW EMOTION attached to that.  Hence these model cars might have got stored in your CONSCIOUS MEMORY for a temporary period and it will be fade away in due course of time.  But suddenly one BMW car in Black color is zipping through you and you watched the BMW car with amazement and you feel WOW about the car in that moment.  This time your EGO / AHANKAR ATTACHED ITS STRONG EMOTION to the SENSORY INPUT. When the Emotion is Strong Enough then it will fall from MEMORY  into Sub Conscious as IMPRINT.  

Please note that your WISH OR DESIRE AT CONSCIOUS MIND WILL REACH AT SUB CONSCIOUS  ONLY IF YOUR EGO / IDENTITY ENDORSED IT.  SO YOUR EGO IS LIKE AN "EMMIGRATION OFFICER" AT AIRPORT WHO CHECKS YOUR PASSPORT (DESIRES) AND STAMP / ENDORSED IT, AFTER THAT ONLY YOU (DESIRE) CAN LEAVE THE IMMIGRATION COUNTER (REACH SUB CONSCIOUS MIND).  So if you want Law of Attraction to work on your Desire, your EGO has to endorse it otherwise it will remain as mere wish at Conscious level and it will never acted upon.

MIND has got 1) INTELLECT / BUDDHI suggested Sensory Input data and 2) AHANKAR/EGO approved Emotion attached Sensory Input.  Out of these 2 Sensory Input data one has to be finalized and acted upon. The Mind always look for Emotions of Pleasure or Pain.  Mind Nature is to avoid PAIN (PHYSICAL & MENTAL) at any cost to put you in COMFORT ZONE or SURVIVAL MODE.   Those Input / Data which has PAIN EMOTION attached to that, will emerge as Winner in General.  Winner Sensory data get stored in Brain initially and then after some time through repetition of  the same Thought with Strong Emotion will create IMPRINT  in CHITTH (Sub Conscious).   This is a Simple and general way of explaining HOW THE MIND FUNCTIONS.  

Let us discuss few LAW OF ATTRACTION Facts Here.

Q1.  I have used the word “Winner data get stored in Brain initially and then after some time in CHITTH (Sub Conscious) ”.  Now you may ask question Why Data Is Getting Stored In Brain first and then in CHITTH (Sub Conscious) After Some Time ?.  If you observe we always use the term “CONSCIOUS MEMORY” & “SUB CONSCIOUS IMPRINT”.  Memory can be WEAK and it can be faded away in short period.  It is like, You are writing your name on beach sand and continuous wind will erase the name after some time.  Whereas the Sub Conscious Imprints are STRONG and it will last long.  It is like CARVING your name on boulder and it will take longer period to get eroded. Writing on sand is easy and take less effort whereas carving on boulder is tough job and it takes more dedicated and long period effort.  That is the reason initially the mind stores the finalized sensory input data (our example Black BMW Car) in the Brain as CONSCIOUS MEMORY which is WEAK.  As long as your thought on Black BMW car stays only in the Brain without strong associated emotion it will remain as your wish or dream (BUDDING STAGE) only for some time and then FADE away.

Q2. HOW TO MAKE WEAK CONSCIOUS MEMORY TO STRONG SUB CONSCIOUS IMPRINT SO AS TO REACH CHITTH / SUB CONSCIOUS.  In order to reach SUB CONSCIOUS IMPRINT (FLOWERING) you have to make the simple Conscious thought more vibrant (STRONG) with Emotion through your dedicated effort and this process will take some time. It is like how BUD take time to become FLOWER.  To make simple, Conscious thought can be made more vibrant or energized through AFFIRMATION (Words and Emotion) & VISUALIZATION (Mental Picture and Emotion).  This means that you are repeatedly bringing your desire (CONSCIOUS MEMORY) as thought or mental picture, stay focused on that without any impediment thoughts and also adding Strong Emotion to that for FEW DAYS (LOOP) CONSISTENTLY so that CONSCIOUS MEMORY become more vibrant due to Emotional Charges and one day it become fully energized and then fall into the Sub Conscious as IMPRINT.  When the Sub Conscious Imprint further gets more energized then it will become UNCONSCIOUS means every cell of your body carry this information.  Through your efforts you are making it happening. We will explore more about this point in our next blog content.  The SECRET book says in philosophical way, once your desire reaches Sub Conscious, the universe will find its own way to fulfill your dream. In Psychological terms it refers that “YOU ARE BECOMING THE PERSON YOU WANT TO BE”. This is what we refer as “TRANSFORMATION” in the last blog posting. In this state whatever action you perform, you are taking one step towards your goal.

Q3. HOW MANY DAYS (The Time Duration) IT TAKES TO MAKE WEAK MEMORY TO STRONG SUBCONSCIOUS IMPRINTS ?.  It depends on the person.  If he does it with Consistent, Dedicate and truly bring Strong Emotion to the Desire and live with it, you can make it happen at an early date

Q4. WHY FEELING / EMOTION IS SO IMPORTANT ?  In the SECRET Book it says “WHATEVER YOU THINK / DESIRE, IT WILL COME TRUE IN LIFE”.  But it is partially correct.  Thinking & Feeling is complimentary to each other.  But Thinking is the Prerequisite and Feeling is the Dominating Factor.   In simple word Thinking is like a balloon and Feeling is like the Gas.  Only Gas inside the balloon can take the balloon to height.  Similarly Feeling / Emotion is the Spirit which make you to act upon on your Desire to reach the Goal.

In the next Article we will explore more about this.

Best Wishes

RADHAKRSISHNAN

LAW OF ATTRACTION - 4 DIMENSIONS OF MIND EXPLANATION WITH PRACTICAL EXAMPLE

It is imperative to understand more about MIND and its functionality.  According to ANCIENT INDIAN YOGIC CULTURE MIND consists of 4 Main DIMENSIONS and they are 

Ø MANAS refers to MEMORY Not only memory stored in BRAIN but also entire BODY CELLS which carry memory. In the Human Body from Head to Toe, there is Memory (manas) – this is called MANOMAYA KOSHA. In every cell in the body, there is memory and intelligence, but no intellect. INTELLECT IS ONLY IN THE BRAIN

Ø BUDDHI refers to INTELLECT (AND NOT INTELLIGENT) IS A DISCRIMINATORY PROCESS WHICH USES REASONING,LOGIC,  COMPARISON.  Buddhi is the intellect – the Logical Dimension of the thought & it cannot function without a certain bank of memory or data.  If you can make more things out of INTELLECT, you are considered intelligent, which is not true but you are a sharper intellect. The Intellect will not take you beyond limits in any way, because it can only function based on the data that is already there. It is not capable of accessing anything beyond that.  Also Intellect will work around your AHANKAR / Identity.  For example If you Identify (Ego) yourself as more knowledgeable person then your intellect will work around the idea as if you know every thing and nothing new to learn which makes you arrogant. 

Ø CHITTH refers to SUB CONSCIOUS / UNCONSCIOUS which is ENERGY SOURCE & STORAGE MEDIA OF HABITS, BELIEFS, SKILL, SELF ESTEEM etc. Any Idea or Desire from the Conscious Mind once reaches CHITTH, it will come true in life. CHITTH  is mind without memory – pure intelligence / Energy. This intelligence is like the cosmic intelligence – simply there. Everything happens because of that. It does not function out of memory – it simply functions. In a way, what you call UNIVERSE is a living mind, not in the sense of intellect but in the sense of CHITTH. It connects to the basis of creation within you. It connects you with your consciousness. CHITTH is always on – whether you are awake or asleep. Your intellect comes on and goes off. Many times it fails, even when you are awake. CHITTH is the Intelligence or energy which making life happen. 

Ø AHANKAR refers to IDENTITY / EGO.  Ahankar gives you a sense of identity. Once your Ahankar takes on an identity, your intellect functions only in that context. It is important to function beyond the intellect, because the intellect is seriously enslaved to your identity.

    WHY LACK OF IDENTITY IS BAD ?  Lack of self-identity can have detrimental effects on mental health and overall well-being, leading to increased levels of anxiety, low self-esteem, social isolation, and feelings of being lost or aimless

      Let us take the case of Lord Hanuman character from Great Epic Ramayana. During his childhood days Lord Hanuman troubled a Saint with funny Pranks when the saint was in deep meditation. The saint cursed Lord Hanuman to make him to forget his power, so he lost all the abilities given to him by the gods. Lord Hanuman asks the saint for forgiveness, the saint informed Lord Hanuman that "When someone reminds You of yours powers, you will remember your strength and thus your power will be restored" This is the classic case of IDENTITY CRISIS.  Despite having so much power, Lord Hanuman reminded of his power by Jambavan the king of bears, to enable him to cross the strait between India and Sri Lanka in one leap.  

Let us to take one simple thought process and understand how the 4 DIMENSION OF MIND works and how it impact us psychologically.  Let us take an Live example. Mr. X wants to buy T-Shirt and went to a cloth shop.

Step 1 - In the shop a dark pink color T-Shirt was displayed along with other T-Shirts and at first sight Mr. X took the Pink T-shirt.  The question is why Mr. X has chosen the Dark Pink Color T-Shirt First ?.  He saw the T-Shirt as Input through his sensory organ Eye and MIND has chosen the Dark Pink color T-Shirt. 

a) Somewhere in the past Mr. X STRONGLY LIKED (Positive Emotion) the Dark Pink color and chooses this color as his Personal Preference and this information has got IMPRINTED as MEMORY (MANAS) in the SUB CONSCIOUS. For easy understanding we can Label this MEMORY IMPRINT as “PREFERENCE”.  

b) At a Later stage of Mr. X  life his college friends made comment that Dark Pink color is meant for Ladies and not for Gents and if Gents wear this color they will become laughing stock (Insult) among the group members. Hence he formed second opinion about DARK PINK COLOR stating that Dark Pink color is meant for Ladies and and if Gents wear Dark Pink Color Dress will draw INSULT (Negative Emotion) from Peer group and this information is also IMPRINTED as MEMORY (MANAS) in the Sub Conscious. We can Label this Memory as “OPINION”. 

Initially Mr. X Picked up Dark Pink Color at first sight without giving a thought , as this color was liked by him strongly and also his Personal Preference. 

Step 2 – After choosing Dark Pink T-Shirt without awareness, the MIND check the BRAIN (MANAS / MEMORY) for availability of any other data related to Dark Pink Color.  The BRAIN (MANAS) supply the second Memory data labelled as “OPINION” about Dark Pink color meant for Ladies and not for Gents, to the MIND.  Since more than one data is available in the Mind about Dark Pink Color then the BUDDHI / INTELLECT start process these two information using Logic, Reasoning and convey its FINAL DECISION to the MIND.  BUDDHI (Intellect) observe  both Memory contents.  Memory Labelled as "PREFERENCE" says Mr. X strongly likes Dark Pink Color and hence to go for Dark Pink Color T-Shirt.  But Buddhi also read another Memory Labelled as "OPINION" and state that Dark Pink color is meant for Ladies and not for Gents and those gents who wear Dark Pink Color dress might get insulted from his peer group.  Now Buddhi analyze the two situation takes a decision.  The “Preference” Labelled memory has his LIKE which is PLEASURE EMOTION but “Opinion” labelled memory has INSULT which has PAIN EMOTION.  In order to avoid Pain (Insult) from Peer Group Buddhi advises Mr. X to forgo his own liking and suggest not to choose Dark Pink Color T-Shirt. BUDDHI Decides to go for the Memory Labelled as “OPINION”.

Step 3 - AHANKAR (IDENTITY/ EGO) of Mr. X also try to evaluate these situations. Since Memory labelled as “PREFERENCE” is already endorsed / Identified by  AHANKAR / Ego. Dark Pink Color has already become his Personal Liking (PLEASURE EMOTION FROM INSIDE).  Hence AHANKAR Pitches to go for “PREFERENCE”.  Even AHANKAR will argue to the extent that one should go for their Personal LIKE / PREFERENCES and accept others criticism or Insult boldly, rather than burying their Preferences to please other Whims.  By nature, If Mr. X has STRONG CHARACTER ETHICS then his MIND will opt for Memory labelled as  “PREPRENCE” and choose Dark Pink Color T-Shirt without bothering about INSULT (PAIN EMOTION FROM OUTSIDE) from Peer Group.

Step 4 – There is an internal conflict between BUDDHI & AHANKAR now in selecting Dark Pink Color dress and it become TUG OF WAR Match . PHYSICAL STRENGTH DOES MATTER IN TUG OF WAR.  In this internal conflict MENTAL STRENGTH decide the WINNER between Buddhi & AHANKAR.  If Buddhi is more powerful than AHANKAR, it will overcome AHANKAR and vice versa.  In this case, Mr. X is having stronger BUDDHI compared to AHANKAR for the simple reason to avoid Insult (PAIN EMOTION), he will not choose Pink Color T-Shirt.  Mr. X choose Blue or some other color T-Shirt and complete the purchasing process. 

Step 5 - Through this purchase process / action, without his awareness, once again Mr. X reiterate to CHITTH (Sub Conscious) that “Avoided Insult (Pain) by not choosing the Pink Color Dress”

Now you may ask “So What ? It is so natural to choose between opinions.  In what way am I going to get affected ?”  At the outset it may look so simple process, but at psychology level it has its own impact.  Earlier Mr. X has 2 information labelled as PREFERENCE & OPINION about Dark Pink color stored as Memory (MANAS) in the Brain.  Since his friends made fun about Pink color as Ladies choice, he formed an opinion that by wearing Pink Color dress will invite sarcasm from his friend circle.  Hence he decided not to choose or wears pink color dress to avoid PAIN EMOTION, despite having his own personal like towards Pink Color.  Due to his recent purchase activity he once again confirmed to his CHITTH (sub conscious) WITHOUT HIS KNOWLEDGE about his dislike towards Pink Color.  Memory labelled as “OPINION”  in CHITTH is getting more strength by this act and “PREFRENCE” labelled Memory in CHITTH is getting weaker.  In the forthcoming cloth purchase activities, Mr. X will CONSCIOUSLY avoid in choosing Dark Pink Color cloth due to ladies choice.  This repetitive purchase process cycle create strong imprint about Dark Pink Color in the Sub Conscious Mind of Mr. X to believe strongly that Pink Color is meant for Ladies and not for Gents.  Mr. X STARTED NOT LIKING Dark Pink Color without his Awareness and it will become his SUB CONSCIOUS BELIEF.  

So far it look so innocuous to us but the hidden negative aspect is that when this  Sub Conscious Strong belief of Not liking Pink Color will become as HATE without Mr. X awareness. Mr. X may simply think that he is not liking the Dark Pink Color at Conscious level, but he is not aware that Not Liking has become so deep rooted and it become as Hate at Sub Conscious level.   Let us assume Mr. X happen to attend a prosperous sales call at client place and the client is wearing Dark Pink Color shirt.  Even though Mr. X prepared well for client meeting but may feel he is not in his full flow and the meeting has not happened the way he wanted.  He was wondering why the client meeting has not gone well  and  try to figure out the reason by looking at other external factors like presentation, client attitude etc.  But Mr. X is not even aware of the fact that his Hatred toward Dark Pink Color cloth at Sub Conscious level created negative feeling  without his awareness towards his client who was wearing the Dark Pink Color shirt on that occasion and jeopardized his business opportunity.

THIS IS HOW MOST OF OUR SUB CONSCIOUS BELIEF ARE FORMED THROUGHOUT OUR LIFE, BY OUR SIMPLE ACTION WITHOUT OUR KNOWLEDGE.  

 If our Sub Conscious Beliefs formed without our Awareness are negative then it will become impediment to our Growth. 

Then How to overcome this issue against the above case study.  While your MIND rejecting Dark Pink Color dress EVERY TIME, instead of using the negative term “ Dark Pink color is meant for Ladies and not for Gents and if Gents wear this color Dress they will become laughing stock among the group member”,  CONSCIOUSLY replace with the Positive Term like “I will be looking smart in Blue color Dress (the color which you choosing)”.  In this way you are conveying positive message to your CHITTH (Sub Conscious).  This is POSITIVE PSYCHOLOGY concept.  While talking to team members it is recommended to use the term “Challenge” instead of “Problem”. We are Facing a Challenge instead of We are Facing the Problem. The reason is the word “Problem” has the psychological connotation - Adversity to avoid or escape from the situation.  The Word “Challenge” has the Psychological connotation - Tough but not Adversity to face or overcome the situation.

Now let us understand how LAW OF ATTRACTION (LOA) work.  There are two person say X & Y who wants to buy MARUTI SWIFT car which cost 6.5 Lacs.  Mr. X is rich person and Mr. Y is Lower Middle income person.  Incase of Mr. X who is rich, can buy this car within his means of Income. In simple word he can fulfill his desire within his COMFORT ZONE.  Whereas to Mr. Y, fulfilling his desire of owing MARUTI SWIFT Car within his means of Income is an uphill task.  He has to move out of his CURRENT COMFORT ZONE and take extra efforts to fulfill his desire.  

CRITERIA FOR MANIFESTATION / LAW OF ATTRACTION TECHNIQUE

Ø THE DESIRE SHOULD BE BIG ENOUGH SO THAT YOU ARE NOT IN A POSITION TO ACHIEVE THE DESIRE WITH YOUR CURRENT LEVEL OF FINANCIAL, TECHNICAL & MENTAL COMPETENCE (COMFORT ZONE).  IN SELF DEVELOPMENT PARLANCE IT REFERS “RAISING THE BAR”

Ø TRANSFORMATION.  MOVING OUT OF CURRENT COMFORT ZONE (TAKING RISK) AND WILLING TO PUT LOT OF EFFORTS & FORGO THE CURRENT PLEASURE (GRATIFICATION) TO ACHIEVE THE DESIRED RESULT. IN SELF DEVELOPMENT PARLANCE IT REFERS “BECOMING THE PERSON YOU WANT TO BE”. 

Please Note That Word TRANSFORMATION.  It Is Not A CHANGE. 

 TRANSFORMATION Means Replaces The Old With New, Transformation Is About Modifying Core Beliefs And Long-Term Behaviors, Habits—Sometimes In Profound Ways—To Achieve The Desired Results. Like How Caterpillar Become Butterfly.

Whereas Change Makes Old Thing Better.  It is Like Pouring Old Wine In A New Attractive Bottle.  It Is Not Changed The Quality Of The Wine Anyway

Example Of Transformation - Gautama Buddha Was A Prince & Pleasure Seeking Person.  But When He Decided To Find The Life Truth, He Left The Palace, Kingdom, Worldly Pleasure And Become A Beggar/Monk To Attain It.

Lot of Readers ask this question “Why Law of Attraction is failing in most of the cases while trying to achieve Big Goals which is beyond our current capability ?”  One of the Main Reason is that the person is not getting TRANSFORMED.  Transform means not only in Personality changes but mainly in your inner Qualities like Attitude, Character, Ethics, Self Esteem/Image etc.  Unless you change your inner quality whatever changes in your Personality which is outer, will not have long term positive impact.  Without changing your inner quality to match to the expected environment which you aspire for, even dedicated following of Law of Attraction tools like Affirmation, Visualization and Gratitude, will not bring the desired result.  Note that Personality is your projection of yourself to outside world which may not be your true nature.  You can attract people through your Personality for some time only.  For example Cine Actors who are having bald head try to hide baldness by wearing wig not only in cinema but also in real life to project good image about themselves.  But once the truth start revealing itself then the entire structure start collapsing.

Best Wishes

RADHAKRISHNAN